Urworthy I agree with you about following through with that boundary. But if I listen to her and validate if she is talking to me about what happened wouldn't that go against that boundary. I will not engage. She will have to bring it up.
The boundary doesnt mean not talking to her, although it could. It means not allowing her to confide in you regarding the OM or anything else as if you were still in a relationship with her. She cant have it both ways.
But based in what he said on Wed and then what she is saying today I'm pretty sure she is going to tell me she wants to go to MC.
And if she does, what will be your response?
Btw, she just sent me a couple of pictures of herself from the airport. Just face pictures, nothing saucy. Lol But wtf??
Remember she is very confused. She seems all over the place. Take it slow, C.
