I have had to speak with a solicitor recently to understand what my rights are. If I am very lucky, i will retain our 50/50 co parenting agreement. If I am unlucky, I will get to see them 4-6 days a month.
I am struggling to come to terms with how things have started down this path. I have never been in a more calm and positive frame of mind. I have given W the sapce and time to let her sort her own life out. I have been using the LRT to create that space but never being rude. I have treated her with respect and compassion. I get the feeling she is getting some bad advice from somewhere, possibly her parents. In any case, there is not much I can do about it other than be informed of what my legal rights are, stay calm and continue being respectiful...and pray every now and then.
Its deeply dissapointing. And to think that for a while there I was hopeful that we maybe had a chance to reconcile. I cant see how i could do that if its starts to get ugly.
WHat makes a WAW change strategy so quickly...
Me - 37 W - 37 M -5 T - 15
S=5 S=3
Seperated - 12/12 BD - 20/03/13 Still seperated - no R or M talk yet.
