I know Urworthy! Keep slamming me. Seriously, 2x4 me as needed. This needs to sick in.
Not really my style, but, sometimes you gotta do what you gotta do.
I couldn't help myself.
Um, you could help yourself, right? You just choose not to.
I am not going to bring this up, but based on the things she has been texting i would be shocked if she didn't.
I'm not sure how to proceed. but I don't really want to just be a sounding board.
Nope, do not bring it up. If she does, listen to what she has to say and validate. Do not engage, C. That's what leads you into trouble.
The thing of it is, that you set a boundary with her. That if she is with om, then she cannot have a relationship with you. A boundary is to protect you. But it isnt worth anything if she doesnt believe it's real.
You keep going round and round with her. You really arent getting anywhere. She might have gotten a dose of reality. So, you need to let her sit with it. She needs to understand that you are moving forward. She knows what she needs to do if she wants to reconnect. And if your changes are real, she will see that.
And there is nothing wrong with looking good when you see her.
