Thanks Mrcas. I definitely feel blessed that we are still communicating as much as we do. No question about it. But I do feel as though she is cake eating at this point and that is my concern about being a sounding board. This is probably the closest she has come to admitting that it would be good to work on the marriage when we said that earlier in the week. But I feel like second choice at this point. That's what I am concerned with. She needs to work on this marriage and herself because he wants to. Otherwise it won't last.
M 37 W 30 S 7 Together 10 years Married 9 years BD: 12/12/12(W filed same day) I moved to apartment 1/11/13 W and S moved to MIL 1/11/13 Peicing: 6/3/13 Reconciled: 7/2013 BD2: 4/20/16 still working on it