I know Urworthy! Keep slamming me. Seriously, 2x4 me as needed. This needs to sick in. Like MrCas said, sometimes I just can't get out of my own way. It was very interesting when she said ok, I'm just ready to come home. I couldn't help myself. That's out of the blue for her to say something like that. She has been texting me little things all afternoon. I finally just said, son and I are going swimming. We'll see you when you get back I am not going to bring this up, but based on the things she has been texting i would be shocked if she didn't. I'm not sure how to proceed. I want to show her i can listen without cutting her off or being controlling, but I don't really want to just be a sounding board. This stuff is so dang hard!!
M 37 W 30 S 7 Together 10 years Married 9 years BD: 12/12/12(W filed same day) I moved to apartment 1/11/13 W and S moved to MIL 1/11/13 Peicing: 6/3/13 Reconciled: 7/2013 BD2: 4/20/16 still working on it