I can't say what the "norm" is but I, personally, recommitted to my M while two of my friends, one my BESTIE, were having A's.

M 46
H 44
D 12 S 8
M 9 T 11
BD 2/15/13
"Makes sense to stay together" 5/12/13
Agree we are 'healing' 7/13
Definitely Piecing 9/13