Divorced-not done-But wondering ?

[JJAC2005]

To really answer this I was thinking of what I wanted in the beginning of my quest and how I got to where I am right now.
This journey might never have have even taken place if it wouldn't have been for me going thru a divorce that I so desperately didn't want.
Now that I have found so many new skills, and made a lot of acknowledgements as well as adjustments on how things should have and could have been.
That pain of the death of our previous relationship needed to be buried in order for any good to come to the 2 of us....and I'm beginning to see the benefits of all the hard work...at least for me.
I do know that I still miss my wife and family every day...and I now know that they miss me as well....as well as my wife knowing everything in my heart for her and the kids.
But there is still a lot of repairs to be done...trust to be won.
So, my first and foremost goal is to regain a solid trusting friendship....and take it slow....very slow!
I could tell that with in the right circumstances our little that were still glowing, could really ignite into a very large fire...and I want to be able to control that burn (to some degree).
secondly, I would say that I would like to stay on my continued path of learning to help me commit the things I am learning to a solid habit...they have to replace any and all of my past behaviors.
3rd I need to stay on task for all of the projects and goals that I have in the works with my all of my GAL goals and things ....I have been so easily distracted from things in the past when I move to quickly with my wife.

I am remembering something I saw on someones posts....you can be right or you can be happy!
I want the Happy back!