Thanks for the reminder Urworthy!
I'm still a work in progress:)
Not sure what deal is with OM as wife and I had an interesting text exchange on my way back from beach:

Me: If your flight leaves on time I'm going to just bring him to your moms about 545

W: ok. I'm so ready to come home

Me. K. Not sure how to take that

W: It means I'm ready to get away from here and to see my son

Me: ok

W: it means I'm ready to leave here and not come back

Me: ok, have a safe trip

W: thanks, can't wait to get home


Not sure what happened, but I'm not going to ask and it doesn't matter. I need to detach for the reasons you stated above

M 37 W 30
S 7
Together 10 years
Married 9 years
BD: 12/12/12(W filed same day)
I moved to apartment 1/11/13
W and S moved to MIL 1/11/13
Peicing: 6/3/13
Reconciled: 7/2013
BD2: 4/20/16
still working on it