The ups and downs of DBing

[Wendylon]

Thank you, Tori, for dropping by.

Trust is an issue. Last night H went out with university friends of his to the theatre and supper. I wasn't included which didn't really matter as I don't really like doing things in groups and don't know these friends. Before he went out, he mentioned about how he wasn't going to drink. He got in at 1.30+ and had obviously been drinking. He put his head under the blanket so I wouldn't smell!

This morning, he asked if I was OK and I responded that I was worried about him and his drinking. He quickly rolled over to end the conversation. Since then, he's been avoiding me. If he takes his laptop upstairs and I go up, he heads downstairs again. I guess I probably shouldn't have said anything about the drinking. I hate how he doesn't seem to like being around me. Sometimes I'm to blame but at other times I think it's because he's embarrassed about his own actions and just anticipates that I'll give him a hard time when in fact he is.

He wants to talk to me about trips he wants to go on this summer--possibly with S13. I don't understand why he's always looking into going away. It costs and what's the problem with staying home...