Thanks for the responses! I have a hard time with anything that isn't the truth or at least a form of the truth. Responding with a question would be easy for me, responding with humor would be what he would expect...either that or the truth. He knows me too well and in fact probably knew what my answer would be. I do want to respond differently than he expects in some way but don't want to be dishonest either. I sound just as confused as he does, don't I? LOL!
In the past he's never asked a question without a motive. He's a "thinker" and for the most part a very communicative man compared to most. He doesn't shy away from telling or wanting to know the truth about anything. I'm the same way and that is why he is so "proud" of himself that he's told me the truth about the OW....says he couldn't live with himself if he didn't. Well, I ask, How can he live with himself by doing what he's doing with the OW not to mention how he's disrespected me!!!!
We had one of our daughter's over for dinner tonight and had a very pleasant evening. He's once again acting as if everything is as it should be and that the our future is as solid as a rock. I know it's just a matter of weeks before he moves out yet he insisted on buying enough food, wine and champagne to last for months when we went shopping today. How can a person that has been so logical and stable all of his life do such illogical things and crazy things? I guess that's the $20,000 question that we all have here. I think I need to do a bit more reading on MLC.
Thanks again for all of your responses. I'm looking forward to the time when I can sit and read up on all of your situations and post on your threads. Until then, I will keep you all in my thoughts.
Keep smiling, find the positive in everything, take care of yourself first and keep standing for your marriage.
Me:57H:62 M:34T:35 2S,2D (grown nlah) BD:09/2012 visits M ow EA/PA?:10/2012 H moves out 06/2013
"Do not let the behavior of others destroy your inner peace." -Dalai Lama
