bug, NG, busting and tori, thanks for the comments. I am still no where near perfect and need work but it was a step forward to recognize and try to not react.
Originally Posted By: tori2012
Subguy, I hope it all goes well with your dad.
Your pastor gave you good advice. Also remember that you forgive for your own benefit. The other person does not really need your forgiveness, but you do so you can be free to be happy.
I wasn't aware that you had signed D papers already. Is that right?
Anyway, best wishes to you.
Yes Tori, we have signed and it was filed the first part of May. There is a 90 waiting period in my state. After that who knows what will happen.
You can not change your past, but you can ruin a perfectly good present by worrying about the future.
