Originally Posted By: jaytee35
Mrbond,

I hear you loud and clear! And honestly, I would wait as long as it takes just to be intimate with my wife again. I have no interest in straying that's for sure.

Currently I am doing the LRT. Would anyone recommend if she does contact me at any point, should I hint or pursue sex with her? Or is that a bad move! She has to be having some sort of sex drive right?


No, she does not have to be having some sort of sex drive. We often assume that just because we do and other we know do, that she must also. She might or might not. Emotional issues can overwhelm whatever sex drive might be present.

I totally understand your feelings about not wanting to stray. At the end of the day, though, you're going to have to decide whether that is a position you can keep over the long-term.


Last sex: 04/06/1997
Last attempt: 11/11/1997
W Issues "No Means No" Declaration: 11/11/1997
W chooses to terminate sex 05/1998
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