My thought is, not your problem. He needs to sit with his pain or whatever feelings he is having. The best thing you can do is allow that to happen without trying to cause him to feel better or worse.

Glad the party was a good one!

Me 57/H 58
M36 S 2.5yrs R 12/13

Let me give up the need to know why things happen as they do.
I will never know and constant wondering is constant suffering.
Caroline Myss