RT,

Your game plan is to present yourself as the more attractive option to W and slowly draw her back to you. Need to present yourself as a positive contrast to OW. Remember honey vs. vinegar? In an odd way, you also need to build up W's shattered sense of self and self-esteem.

Draft Response

WAW,

Thanks for letting me know your plans. I appreciate your honesty and respect in telling me. I hope you find some peace and resolution for yourself in your actions and decisions.

I had a wonderful time with you when you were here and Sunday night was really special to me.

Be safe driving and take good care of yourself.

RT

Comments

It is so much better than the first draft. I would suggest to show true empathy for W's feelings and build her up a bit. Below is just a suggestion.

WAW,

Thank you for your letter. It took a tremendous amount of courage to do this and I admire you for it. Sharing your thoughts and feelings had to be very hard for you. I really appreciate it and they will be kept in utmost confidence between us.


All of this must feel scary to you and it isn't be fun for you at all! If you need to talk, I'm here for you. I too enjoy our time together as well and had a wonderful time when you were here. It is my hope that you'll find some peace soon.

Be safe driving and take care of yourself.

RT