I think he's pretty much on the money.

Allow yourself to pat yourself on the back, maintaining your calm in those situations is difficult especially if you're breaking a pattern. I give you cudos and a big hug ((( )))

Hope your father's memory issues improve.

Me 57/H 58
M36 S 2.5yrs R 12/13

Let me give up the need to know why things happen as they do.
I will never know and constant wondering is constant suffering.
Caroline Myss