Divorced-not done-But wondering ?

[whitneypinch]

Well, in my experience you can never know what their motivation truly is.

Try to go with low expectations.... ahhhh I tell you this like everyone always says..... but we end up having expectations that something good will come.... usually it leads to disappointment.

BUT go and be confident, listen to her, validate, and if she wants to hear how you are feeling then tell her. Be appreciative that she is willing to talk about things.
HAVE FUN. Leave her with a good experience of it, not just a heavy conversation. Remember they want positive experiences with a confident person.

That is my (not expert) opinion.

Wish my XW would do that. In 5 years she has been very nice to me but has shown NO interest whatsoever in us.