Stuck between a rock and a hard place!

[dorightman]

Cadet, W wanted me to move out last August. I didn't because of the advice on this board. But as time passed, I was not able to control my emotions, crying and a few times when I really lost it in front of her and the kids. She was more and more determined to get me out and eventually after a big fight had the police come to the house and escort her into the house to get her stuff.
After that, I moved out because I was afraid she would have me arrested!

I never ever hit her or the kids, I just had about 3 emotion breakdowns, and I had all the normal reactions, crying, begging, etc

She was threatening to move out with the kids if i didn't, and I didn't want the kids to be affected. So I moved out.

If I move back, there's always the chance that she will move out and take the kids.