Hello BrightFuture. H does not live with JW. H is actually staying with a relative and sleeping on the floor in a room with no windows in 90 degree heat and one little fan. Why would H choose that?? H wants to get an apt. In another town where he works and JW lives. JW lives with her alcoholic/ drug abuser husband who apparently is fine with the current situation. Neither she nor her husband work. But with things being so bad financially there is no way H can do that at least not right now. H had issues when his own kids were little so I cannot imagine him doing well with 2 little ones in diapers. But from what I understand she is one of those " mothers" and I use that term very loosely for her-- that always pawns hers kids off on someone else. I know that waiting and time are part of my life right now and massive amounts of patience. But everyone just keeps telling me get rid of him right now,this second. sigh....I can do this,I can do is. Have a good day BF.
