Hi everyone! Tomorrow W, Ss, and I head to the beach for a week. It's going to be a real test for me. I so want the S's to have a great time. And w and I too, of course. Please pray for us all. Me especially to keep my expectations at zero. And my nerves as I have to look at w in her bathing suit all week .
Relax and remind yourself that this trip is not likely to make or break your M. Just keep things light and friendly, and be your confident, comfortable new self.
And of course, as I'm sure you know, this means NO R talk.
And boys at the beach? You're worried they won't have fun? Now that's funny!
I've noticed many H's here lament over the fact that they have to see their W looking hot in revealing clothing. I see it differently. For me, it gives me more reason and strength to stand. You know, like there's the prize! I hope this makes sense and didn't offend any ladies here.
Remember: You're the H she would be a fool to leave.
Mtn at the beach>>>>
M: A really long time. Crisis: 5 years. She's still worth it.
Life is never made unbearable by circumstances, but only by lack of meaning and purpose. -Viktor Frankl
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