"Then we got that text Monday night from OMW and W reverts back to "things aren't going well, I'm still not attracted to you". Its almost like she's running away because of possible guilt and fear."
It's a little of that AND the fact that you confronted her about it. You seem to pass it off like it wasn't a big deal, when it's big to her. She's still in the phase of not knowing what she wants. So she's trying any option EXCEPT one that includes you.You are going to have to hold off on accusing her or confronting her about anything because that's when her guard shoots back up again.
Absolutely true. SHE thought things were going okay, too, and then you confronted her about the OMW's text and she is most likely thinking "He will never let it go. It will never be any different", or something similar.
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"Haven't had any serious talk with W since Monday night when I told her "to go"."
You are upset about something that happened in the past and you told her to leave because of it.
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"W is now at her sisters all weekend. Her 30 year old sister who just left her husband because she just wasn't attracted to him anymore. UGGHHH."
She is only going to leave if she wants to leave, not because someone else left there marriage. If she wants to, she may see this as her "permission" to do so, if she doesn't, it will not impact her decision.
M 46 H 44 D 12 S 8 M 9 T 11 BD 2/15/13 "Makes sense to stay together" 5/12/13 Agree we are 'healing' 7/13 Definitely Piecing 9/13
