"Aren't most MLC'ers involved in A?... I haven't read any stories of MLC'ers who aren't."
No not all of them are involved. An A partner (like everything else in MLC - new business, new car, new home, etc.) are just parts of their "change" Many look for external things to make them happy when they don't understand that they will only be happy when they are happy INSIDE.
In your case, I wouldn't even think about an A on his part. It's going to be another thing that's going to drive you crazy.
M-43 W-40 2D - 9 and 5
Emotion, yet peace. Ignorance, yet knowledge. Passion, yet serenity. Chaos, yet harmony. Death, yet a new life.