Is this cake eating 14

[NLW]

Thanks Kaffe.

The question of the funeral is going to be tricky.

Who goes?
I presume I won't be invited even though I've known this man as a grandfather for 17 years.

If H takes OW, my kids won't go.

If he doesn't, I think they'd feel weird and upset going alone.

We'll see, but I'm not looking forward to the messiness and sadness that this is likely to evoke.