Hugs. I have thought several steps along the way would be the end, period, and they werent. When you arent sure how you feel, go slow, breathe, keep busy, wait. Nothing needs to get decided right now.
Pasta eating was not cake eating imo lol. Good interaction, good for the kids, put you in a good light. Like db says, if results are good keep it up, if results not good do something different. Be breezy and low pressure and try not to have any expectations at all, but a light positive family interaction is a good thing.
Adinva 51, S20, S18 M24 total 6/15/11-12/1/12 From IDLY to H moving out 9/15/15-3/7/17 From negotiating SA to final D at age 50 5/8/17-now: New relationship with an old friend __ Happiness is a warm puppy.
