Kee, you say you had many wonderful years... a lot of MLCers and WAH's revise their marital history to say how horrible it "always was"
and a lot of LBSers say 'it was wonderful UNTIL OW, or MLC", or etc....
the point is to see things for how they really were so you can assess what you truly want.
Here is what you wrote in your first post of this thread (the only one I"ve read)
Originally Posted By: KEE
My ex h and I divorced during his MLC. We have been together or in contact when he has ran the entire 13 years. Two years ago, he ran again and I moved home. See the disconnect?
For the last two years he has stayed in contact, telling me he was sorry, telling me if he could have his way he would want us back, telling me that I taught him about love and he will never love another woman like me.
He texted me on Mothers Day and when I responded he said it hurt him to much to talk to me and he was in a new relationship but didnt know where it was going. I have now initated NC. Why would he give me hope only to crush it?
He did not care if he gave YOU hope. Nor did he care if it crushed you. Doubt he "intended" either...the point was all about HIM>
HE wanted to know you were there for him as a backup. Once he knew that, no further contact was needed...
M: 57 H: 60 M: 35 yrs S30,D28,D19 H off to Alaska 2006 Recon 7/07- 8/08 *2016* X = "ALASKA 2.0" GROUND HOG DAY I File D 10/16 OW DIV 2/26/2018 X marries OW 5/2016
