Divorced-not done-But wondering ?

[JJAC2005]

HELP….
OK…sort of got really nervous just a little bit ago….and I felt the need to reach out for some helpful, encouraging, and calming advice…..PLEASE!
I just received a text from my ex-wife, whom has basically been a WAS since the end of Sept.2012
I guess, I can say though I am not completely surprised as I knew once she found out that the boy and I had been communicating and he invited me to come to his game the other night (which I showed up at)
She basically wanted to know how I knew about the game…..and to let me know that the communication between the boy and I had made her a bit angry and she didn’t appreciate it at all.
How did I know about the game…the boy texted me and invited me.
We have been chatting/texting for the past few days….he has really missed me.
I told him that the last time I let his mother know he called me, she basically cut off any and all communication between the kids and myself.
So, this time I would be a bit more cautious and let it go a little longer before we let on that we were chatting….as he wanted to ask if he could come to my place sometime for the weekend.

Sometime ago (Jan) I had wanted to chat…she wasn’t read…then she offered and I had to cancel
I sent her a letter…she didn’t take it well
I admittedly have disappointed her in many ways thru our marriage…but in the past 8 months I have grown tremendously
I need some serious advice here people…..my anxiety is starting to get the better of me…lol
I don’t know if I should play this very low key or spill my guts!

She is now wanting to meet in person at my earliest convenience…..and I am booked solid, I could make room at anytime to see her….and I think she knows that I will