H: What are you going to do after I move? Are you going to date or find someone to live with you?
Me: (I'm sure I had a perplexed look on my fact) No, I don't think so.
Wrong answer!!!!! Why not just tell him "go ahead honey and have your fantasy affair, and I'll be sitting here waiting for you as your plan B if you ever change your mind"!!!!
A better answer would have been "I'm going to invite the entire local rugby team to live with me" or "I'm hoping for a tall dark and handsome room mate" or "What I do after you leave is no business of yours" or "Well, you know I'm a woman with a high drive, so I expect there will be some men involved".
ANYTHING other than what you said.
As for him being confused and excited - yes, he's excited about the novelty of the new relationship - and confused because he still wants you there waiting for him.
