I guess what I mean, am I just being passively aggressive by not working with her on the divorce? I've said before that she seems to feel I have a responsibility to move the legal proceedings along since I've filed the taxes and other legal stuff in our M. If I don't do anything, and if she doesn't, then the court will dismiss the case in 6 months or a year. I doubt that will happen. Probably she will do what she needs to before that happens. But I expect my inaction inspires more negative feelings from her. And I also fear that it will make the process rockier. If it's inevitable, maybe I should just make it smoother and faster. The only 'actions' I'm considering are encouraging her to serve me and sharing with her what I've learned about the process, and urging her to set up a mediator appointment.
