Let's hope it's "minor"...but I guess "minor" or "major" or "deal breaker" is in the eye of the beholder, ya know? They may see it as one, whereas we see it as the another...won't know til we get there....
How I reacted was pretty much like as if she had been in a car accident and it wasn't exactly her fault, I guess that would be the best way to describe it...idk...I have not been one to freak out on that sort of thing (and I do have a teenage male driver in the house the past few years)...I just accepted the reality (and there was a little "social" shared present that brought it out for her). I brought out my Mr. Spock side in front of her...of course I had more to say here on the forum... And I am pretty much moved forward, let go, accepted the past, etc about it now...maybe like 98%...just doesn't bother me much when I think of it now.
Good luck with the moving in...read up on how to deal with the in-house mlc'er...The "dim" dance is your friend, cuz you will have to interact with him more often...The 37 (or so) rules are the guidebook...
Spin up Bob Marley's "Run Away"...the lyrics sound like our mlc'ers...
Make a great weekend!!! T^2
In the depths of winter, I finally learned that within me there lay an invincible summer. - Albert Camus
Uncertainty is the very condition which impels people to unfold their powers.-Eric Fromm
And I am pretty much moved forward, let go, accepted the past, etc about it now...maybe like 98%...just doesn't bother me much when I think of it now.
