I believe that while your W may act indifferent, deep down she's not. And even if it doesn't seem like it, she's watching you taking everything in. I can attest to this.
Oh, she is watching you, Fy, count on it. She is taking it all in, trying to figure herself out. Thinking about how she said she wants out of the relationship, but, that hasnt made her happy.
Cadet: Thinking that this could take many more years DOES NOT help me. I will continue to hope for a quick turnaround, not only because it could happen, but because it's the only way I can do this. If things don't turn around this year, I'll deal with it then.
Fy, trust me, while every sitch has some commonalities to it, they are all different. How could they not be? Every person and every crisis is different. It absolutely can happen quickly. There is always hope for that.
I think you have the right mindset. You do it until you cannot anymore. Today you can.
It seems if I use a powerful enough microscope, there is some positive movement. Thanks to all who pointed out our positives out weigh the negatives. I do consider myself one of the lucky ones on this board, if there is such a thing.
There are many positives. Some very big ones. And yes, relatively speaking, you are one of the lucky ones.
Yes, I am enjoying the scenery along the way... we only have so many days on this earth... it's up to us to figure a way to enjoy each one!
True dat, Fy, Life should be lived and enjoyed to the fullest. Laugh, love, make memories. Try new things. All of it so important.
