I am still in MC by myself for the time being and I was wondering something. In an earlier post from one of the members said that MC does not work for the WAS. They said that it may even accelerate the her leaving.
Is this true?
I have a MC appointment next week and she said that she will go too.
Yes I mis read your post.
Re-read what shouldistill hope posted.
My guess(and I am mind reading) that your wife will use the counseling session to PROVE why you are getting divorced.
So if you can go with little expectations and understand that it is unlikely that these sessions will lead to reconcilliation, then by all means go.
That is why I asked what you were thinking.
I dont agree that it is the reason for them filing for divorce, however it is what they use to validate their foggy thinking.
It is so hard to wrap your head around ilogical thinking, other than sometimes just knowing that OPPOSITE is the watchword.
I think that if you don't go, then they will blame you for it, and if you do go, they will blame you.
Get my drift - you can't win. So best to play for what ever is best for YOU!
