I would say yes to disabling FB. IMO it isn't helpful at all.
[/b] I think this i will do too. I always seem to be negative on the site and say more than i should.
Not sure why you want to hide, other than to try and cause concern about your well being and hope that W will contact you or worry about you and that isn't what she needs, nor will it help.
[b] Yes i think that is the reason. to see if she will reach out. But i guess looking at it now its not a good thing
I would not change number, just don't contact W. If she contacts you then you have a choice to contact her or NOT.
But anyway my step daughter text me and asked me for some help tonight. she needed a ride. I try not to talk to her about my W her mom at all.
Is this still a good thing that i do helping her out. We talk all the time and sometimes i do things the W should be doing but she does not...... It seems like i am more stable to her and honestly we talk about alot of stuff. much diff then when W and all of us were together. She was the source of alot of the problems....
it is just hard to keep my head off of W when i talk to stepdaughter and other Family members. They come to me not me going to them.
just hope the W see this somehow but not sure she has been told about the step daughter being helped like i do.
much diff then when W and all of us were together. She was the source of alot of the problems....
Who are you talking about W or D?
If you care about and want to be in your step daughters life, I would be involved as much as she wants you to be, meaning as much as you can while respecting what she wants and needs.
Help her, talk with her, do whatever with her, but do it for you and her, not anyone else.
Do NOT talk about your W with her, even if she brings it up. Do NOT talk about your W with her family either.
M46,W41 D16,D18 M22,T25 BD 11/12 W moved out 01/13 Piecing 10/13 Divorced 01/15 "Whether you worry or not has no affect on the outcome. But, moving forward, letting go, and making changes can." UrWorthy
M46,W41 D16,D18 M22,T25 BD 11/12 W moved out 01/13 Piecing 10/13 Divorced 01/15 "Whether you worry or not has no affect on the outcome. But, moving forward, letting go, and making changes can." UrWorthy
I was talking about my step daughter and I. She always caused problems. at one point she told her mom I am the reason why she did not want to be in the same house.
I talk to a NEW DB coach on monday morning. I like the old one and may still ask for her. But i was talked into try a new one. My old one was at a loss. and said at this point just do no contact. I do not want to start all over again but will give it a shot i guess..
Just came back from giveing step daughter a ride. we got lost but it was ok.
you know it is so nice she texts me she is so into going to school and is confused to know what the next step is. Im going to help her with that somehow.
im not going to do whatever i can to help with what i can,
I was talking about my step daughter and I. She always caused problems. at one point she told her mom I am the reason why she did not want to be in the same house.
You might want to look at why that is...
Originally Posted By: lostforever
I talk to a NEW DB coach on monday morning. I like the old one and may still ask for her. But i was talked into try a new one. My old one was at a loss. and said at this point just do no contact. I do not want to start all over again but will give it a shot i guess..
I hope it helps. I would get one if had a cc to charge up
M46,W41 D16,D18 M22,T25 BD 11/12 W moved out 01/13 Piecing 10/13 Divorced 01/15 "Whether you worry or not has no affect on the outcome. But, moving forward, letting go, and making changes can." UrWorthy
you know it is so nice she texts me she is so into going to school and is confused to know what the next step is. Im going to help her with that somehow.
She is looking to you for guidance, what a great opportunity to bond
Originally Posted By: lostforever
im not going to do whatever i can to help with what i can,
Hope you meant you are going to do whatever you can to help?
M46,W41 D16,D18 M22,T25 BD 11/12 W moved out 01/13 Piecing 10/13 Divorced 01/15 "Whether you worry or not has no affect on the outcome. But, moving forward, letting go, and making changes can." UrWorthy
Yeaah the cost is a bit much but I think it helps. it is just at this point i feel it is not and W is just not giving the responses that they would think and should be giving. so there is the confusing part on both sides
