I'm doing the same...W has started changing when I'm in my our MBR, I go into "Oh look, a squirrel!" mode (well, there usually IS a squirrel in the trees out the bedroom window...)
Part of it is for MY sake (it IS spring/summer after all)... part of it is that she has gotten a little too skinny and well, too skinny is less attractive. I like thin and/or athletic, but too much of either detracts, and without the "love feelings" to compensate and gloss over flaws, well...don't want to make things harder for myself for both reasons.
T^2
In the depths of winter, I finally learned that within me there lay an invincible summer. - Albert Camus
Uncertainty is the very condition which impels people to unfold their powers.-Eric Fromm
