B, you are not a dummy that fell for a trap. You're a wonderful, caring person who reached out to someone in need. Regardless of the destruction these MLCers cause we all remember who they really are and our commitment to them and the deep love we still have allows us to be sensative when they are obviously hurting. It's wonderful that you two had a moment of honest communication. That's what happens when we're guided by our heart not our head (no ego!). Nicely done!
