His grandfather, the kids great-grandfather just passed away.
He was 92 years old and in hospital.
XH wanted to tell the kids, but they were out.
I told him I'd let him tell them, but he said no, i should handle it. He seemed not to want to end the conversation. I have a heavy cold/flu and Xh was very concerned (again, so uncharacteristic).
The kids will be upset. On hearing that their grandfather was in hospital recently, they had wanted to go and visit him - as they'd not seen him for the 2 yrs since their father has been gone.
XH offered to take them, but the kids said they didn't want to go with him. I asked MIL to take them, but I think she thought she would be undercutting XH.
So, the kids didn't see their great-grandfather, and now he's gone.
Just another stupid pointless waste from this whole mess. And more damage to the kids.
