I would say definitely not yet. I have two questions about this. 1. Has she apologized? 2. Has she asked for forgiveness?
If the answers here are "no", then its not time yet.
Be careful at your reunion. It sounds like you might have some expectations bubbling up. This is just a dog visit, not a R talk. Keep it light, short and sweet. Leave before you want to, and definitely before she wants you to.
Keep your composure, show off your 180's and GALs as best you can. Listen to her, empathize and express confidence in her. (Google "empathic listening" if you get a chance, it will give you some great ideas.)
no she hasn't said sorry or asked for forgiveness.... So I will make sure I wait for one or both of those things to happen...
Yes maybe because it's the first time seeing her my expectations are too high.. I will work on taking it down a few notches before I go tonight. Part of me believes she will cancel or forget about it.. all part of the MLC scatter brain thing..
I will google empathic listening right now.. I know I could use a few lessons in it.
I will update for sure..
M-39 W-41 T-9yrs BD-Dec 2012 “regardless of your choices and the fact that they may have caused me to experience painful emotions, I still love you because I recognize the purpose of our journey.”
