I hope so, too, Bea. I'm worn out and need this to be over so I can really start to recover emotionally and financially.
It hit me that a possible reason H is now pushing for a sale of the house after offering it free and clear is that he needs to pay his attorney. Similar to someone who unconsciously runs up debt, is surprised to receive a bill and then doesn't want to have to pay it out of their earnings. So typical of H. Our current mortgage has a car and other irresponsible debt rolled into it because H didn't want to pay it off. Obviously, the debt is still there, just disguised. BTW, I'm not on the current mortgage. H told me I couldn't be on it since I didn't work and I stupidly believed him. It wasn't until the D process started that I took a careful look at the loan papers and saw what he had done.
I just want to get out of this with my kids, home and no financial scars.
