I believe that while your W may act indifferent, deep down she's not. And even if it doesn't seem like it, she's watching you taking everything in. I can attest to this.
Thanks TVS, I've sometimes thought the same. How could they not? Especially when they are still in the M home with us.
Cadet: Thinking that this could take many more years DOES NOT help me. I will continue to hope for a quick turnaround, not only because it could happen, but because it's the only way I can do this. If things don't turn around this year, I'll deal with it then.
It seems if I use a powerful enough microscope, there is some positive movement. Thanks to all who pointed out our positives out weigh the negatives. I do consider myself one of the lucky ones on this board, if there is such a thing.
Yes, I am enjoying the scenery along the way... we only have so many days on this earth... it's up to us to figure a way to enjoy each one!
Originally Posted By: RH
Were you not physically clingy in public before MLC?
We would sometimes hold hands or walk together arm in arm. Post MLC she made a point to separate herself from me with space while out together. Recently that space has begun to shrink... sometimes.
Mtn: Thanks for the vote of confidence!
M: A really long time. Crisis: 5 years. She's still worth it.
Life is never made unbearable by circumstances, but only by lack of meaning and purpose. -Viktor Frankl
