My mother is dying. XW wants to be my friend.

[25yearsmlc]

PS 2

I know you think I'm furious and harsh with you. I admit I'm extremely frustrated

but that is NOT what I mostly feel at the moment. I feel FEAR that you will blow the remaining time you have with your mom

you can Defer feeling like crap and obsessing about your wife until AFTER your mom time...

but please do NOT use any of the time your mother has remaining on earth,

time that might be spent lenthening her days here AND OR the quality of those days

instead of asking why your ex wife left you a few years back.

Do you see that in the big picture,

your ex wife's decision and choices to leave are so tiny and puny,

compared to what your mom has given you and what you COULD do for HER??



Tad, wallow later if you wish. But at this moment in time your mother needs you and

you need her.

I feel as if you have not made your sons the priority when it compares to your wallowing and navel gazing, but dear God maybe with time you can make up for that.

You don;t have that kind of time with your mom. So go make the most of what you have with her.

And who knows? Maybe she'll benefit from some of KML's suggestions and live better and longer b/c of your efforts...