But I have to say one thing! Your S is still living with you! You have a chance to work on your M, so don't blow it! I'd give anything to have my S home! Geesh!
Ok, when you have negative thoughts start listing positives, put up a stop sign when you do the stinking thinking! Are you giving her space, really? uhmmm Be loving, be her friend. Let her lead the dance.
And by all means count your blessings, there are some here that have it worse off than you. Buck up, and start reading the DR book.
And know that at least you have a chance to save your M! Now get to work, and DB your butt off!
