Well before about 1/2 hour ago I think we were going to the wedding but some things that just transpired I don't know. The wedding is tomorrow and he acted like we were going to go. Then he took our youngest to the store, again, and bought her all kinds of stuff. Get home to our house (he's still living at his parents) and she wants someone to make her this pasta that takes forever. I tell her I'm not feeling good. I'll make it tomorrow. So he does it for her AFTER she runs her mouth. I also ask her why she hasn't put her stuff away I asked her to do 3 days ago and she runs her mouth again. H doesn't back me up. This is one of our issues from the past. i go upstairs, hurt and he leaves without even saying goodbye.

So I feel like we have taken 2 giant steps back. It really bothers me when he drops in and does all kinds of stuff for the kids then leaves. All I seem to have time to do is keep up with the house and laundry,pick up after them, etc. So why should they listen to me when their dad will do whatever they want? He doesn't live there so they don't have to do anything for him.

This is something that I have talked to MC about and IF we ever begin to work on R it will definitely have to be addressed. But, the old me would have gotten mad and had words. I just went upstairs and got away from the situation.

M 48 H 50
M 25 T 27
D 20,18,15
6/11 H filed
3/12 H dropped
4/12 H moved out