I've been warned before, though, that when the R gets sexual right away, it tends to short-circuit the rest of the process of getting to know the other person - the relationship gets kinda stunted.
That's been my experience kml. I actually told SDA lady that when we were first dating and discussed our thoughts on you-know-what. I was OK with no sex for awhile and we waited for seven months. When I told her I needed a little more she stepped up. I once dated a woman for six months and pretty much all we did was have sex...and have sex...and have sex. We never went anywhere but dinner and rushed to her place...to have sex. Finally, she dumped me because she decided she didn't love me, she felt it had just been lust. Through this time we thought we loved each other and had a great relationship but in hindsight we were stunted and the R never grew...the only thing that grew was between my legs lol. So, yes, I agree with you kml.
