WAW having affair, still living in separate rooms

[kenva]

I had my appointment today w attorney and he's said w attorney contacted him for us to make the next move. My attorney asked hers if there was a chance of reconciling. Her attorney said after talking with w that she said no to reconciling. I told attorney I expected that because she is still angry w my response to the divorce papers she served me. . So mine tells me take a week or so to let him know what I want to do. One of three. Negotiate a settlement, do nothing ( let her do it all) or go to litigation. He said basically the call from her attorney was with an olive branch to peacefully handle this. I plan on telling her that we need to talk next week. I am also going to tell her that I know about her friend.