Swimming Upstream Against the Current

[BrightFuture]

Hi Portia. I like Linda’s optimism too. I’ve just remembered that I was given an advice some time ago by a different relationship coach. She said that you should maintain at least one months of NC when your spouse or SO leaves in order to have better chances to save your R. I’ve also read this in some of the e-books that I purchased right after BD. Some of them actually recommended even longer NC period. And if you make a contact for any reason, then you have to start over. I think you are doing good by maintaining NC for now. You still have some time to consider when you want to make a contact.