Tx KD... Im not a fan of detaching, although I know it has helped me ALOT!
I do not want to do anything that risks him being chased further away.
I am trying soooo hard to keep all communication about business only. Not initiating convo's (not even work ones, unless super important). Trying to be upbeat, happy & attractive when I see him or take his calls.
I would love to just chit chat about friendly stuff, days events or even a joke.... but am dim in these areas too, hoping he will lean closer towards me and want to pursue me in that way. Even when we have client meetings, I distance myself from him, walking in opposite direction, and he will come towards me.... all of this, but still friendly.
OH... it is finally "shorts" weather...but I looke like a 12 year old boy with all the weight I lost
M:46 H:49 T:20yrs myD:22 H distant summer/12 H sleeping in b'ment: Nov/12 BD: Dec 2/12 asked me begin to move end of Jan/13 moved Jan 7/13 (left my stuff) "agreed" to "working on r" Mar 3/13(lipservice!)
