Going In Circles

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I would also like some advice from anyone who might have any insight on this.

My divorce will be final on July 12. I have read on others posts that at some point it might be a good idea to apologize to W for all the things i have done that have led us to this point.

My question is, is this a good idea and when would be an appropriate time to do it?

Before D is final, or after?

Thanks for your help.