For all you other LD people out there, listen up, and listen up good.
Quote: How does one generate passion where none exists
Welp, first, do you have a soul? Do you have a core being that longs for understanding and comfort? Do you have a part of you longing for the other half?
If you can answer yes to that, you have passion. And all you have to do is open your eyes, truly open your eyes and see that the person whom you married is that other half, and if you GIVE your soul to that soul, you have the most amazing passion you could ever fathom, ever dream to touch, and the only way to EXPERIENCE it is through the physical act of loving.
Passion is not a tingling in the groin, or butterflies in the belly from staring at a tight ass. Passion is the tingling in the groin, the butterflies in the belly from the anticipation of the spiritual act of touching the other half of your soul. It is not the burning feelings of desire of the flesh, it is the burning feelings of desire deep within your soul, for that amazing human you married, all their wonderful traits, and all their wonderful faults combined... combined with your wonderful traits and your wonderful faults, all made whole by the two of you coming together.
In that moment, and in that moment alone, is the only way for humans to know that in fact love exists, and it will all be okay.
Yes, you have it within you, all within YOU, and if you dare to give it, the person on the other end WILL catch it, hold it, and never, ever drop it. You just have to have the courage to give.