Crazy little thing called MLC

[Raine]

snodderly, you're gonna need to keep saying it too, cause my goodness I keep thinking I'm standing on solid ground and then realize it's all sand, and I want answers now at any cost. You are so right. It's funny that I know as much as I do by being quiet. He would make a terrible poker player. He hints and hints and hints, and then the moment I pry, he pulls away and tells me to stop analyzing.

Your post made me think that he has been trying to push me to the point of me initiating D, and when it seemed clear I would forgive an A, he took it further. But then he got what he wanted and realized he actually doesn't want a D yet.

Okay no more questions or showing interest from me.

Him being here is going to be quite the adjustment. My money is on him not going anywhere until he gets scared. So I guess the best thing to do no matter what my goals are is to follow the lead of the other spouses with live-in MLCers.

But if I were playing the odds in vegas with the ways this story would go, I would be deep in the red.