Another thing I'm confused about:

2 weekends ago W went up with her sister to tell her parents that her sister and her husband were spitting up. They're each 30 and have been married 5 years, with 2 young kids. Her sister is splitting up with her husband because she has the exact same feelings as my W (lost attraction).

So afterward when W came back to house I asked her point blank "does your sister doing this make you now want to do it to?". She said no, she was glad that she came back in June after a month separation to work on our marriage. Then I said "well how do think things are going now?" She said "good, I think were still "trying", but things are good"

That was 2 weeks ago?????


M-38
W-32
D7, S4
M-10
BD-May '12
S for 1 month-June '12
Reconcile, Piecing