Crimson, Forgiven is not forgotten and even though I do agree that the past is the past.. .... it is damn difficult to not let the past creep up and scare you.
Do not let your frustrations cloud your mind that you have not truly been forgiven just because your wife is still scared... or that she is moving at a turtles pace.
We all grown in our own way - in our own time.
You just need to continue to make it safe for her to look in the mirror and inspire her to make the changes she feels like she needs to make when she does.
M(f): 40 D'ed: 8/12
Show empathy when there's pain. Show grace when warranted. Kindness in the midst of anger. Faith in the face of fear.
