Hi KD.. I def, believe it is MLC (BD after a death, confusion, concerned about life, aging, grass is greener, etc).

I was at the house, which is why I asked about the toothpaste, because earlier he kind of got annoyed when I wanted to make a special trip into town over toothpaste. Thinks I should be "working" !!

In my effort to ask for the toothpaste, it came out that he feels I left (which is a shock)... and then to see his confusion too. I now want to point out to him that no, we were actually getting along during that time, so that he doesn't have it in his head that we were fighting... is that OK to do?

I know ultimately it doesn't matter... but, I want him to understand that his head has it mixed up... maybe it isn't as bad as he "thought" and needs to remember how it actually went. IT might make him not think so poorly of us!

M:46 H:49 T:20yrs
myD:22
H distant summer/12
H sleeping in b'ment: Nov/12
BD: Dec 2/12
asked me begin to move end of Jan/13
moved Jan 7/13 (left my stuff)
"agreed" to "working on r" Mar 3/13(lipservice!)